Steve- Theses problems are universal- they occur in all religions and denominations- sometimes even at civil marriages!
Every branch of photography has its hazards. Back in 1975 I was assigned to cover the Calgary Stampede - one of the largest rodeo events in the world. In those days I was younger, stronger and faster. I had a press pass to work right on the infield. I did not like the compressed images that accompany the use of long lenses that look as if the riders are right next to the chutes so I used a wide angle lenses and worked close and low to get good shots of the bull riders.
Let me tell you- nowadays I would rather deal with a grouchy clergyman or a so called bride-zilla than have to dodge a 1500 pound very pissed off pot roast charging toward me. As far as the bucking horses are concerned, I would be mad as hell too- well you know how the get them to BUCK!
Best regards, Ed