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Old 04-02-2009   #83 (permalink)
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Default Re: guests taking photos during formals ?

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Originally Posted by Mark McCall View Post
Your behavior at the wedding overshadows any beautiful image you capture. That guest may be rude, but they're also family. Snapping at them doesn't do you an ounce of good.

Your reputation takes a shot every time blow a gasket. Everybody is watching.

There's a saying...
"If they like the photographer, they like the photos".
The reverse is also true.

Although I absolutely agree with you, I think you've misunderstood. I did not in anyway what so ever "snap" at the family. I was very polite, even after I was pushed by the sister of the groom (and yes, it was intentional because I was in her way i guess). It was only after looking at my LCD screen time after time and having blown images because there were 3-5 other flashes going off when mine was that I confronted the problem more aggressivly. When I say "i put on my mean face" I don't mean I went crazy, I just took my tone of voice and body language to a more serious level (while still maintaining some bit of professionalism & sanity ).

My reputation certainly means everything to me so I would never loose it or "blow a gasket," because in general I tend to let things roll off my back, probably too much sometimes lol Hope this explains things better.
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